its always important to start with the basics of magick, because its important to learn about the time of day, moon phases, herbs, candles, what magick is and how it works, circle casting, grounding and centering and much more, that has to do with the basics of magick, because this is all important in our family, and magick is not easy, because you must practice a lot and learn a lot about magick in books and online, and get good at doing magick, which takes years, in magick/witchcraft, you never stop learning, their is always something new to learn, sense all books on magick and all people, that do magick, don't have the same information.

So, if you want to contact our mother and father, and learn to ascend and grow spiritually, then learn the occult and become a witch, like i am and you will grow a connection with them, also, if you forget the basics, then you can do re-reading, also, i would like each member to make a book of shadows, because lots of witches, keep track of their progress in a book of shadows, a book of shadows is a book, like a journal, that helps you keep track of dreams you had, spells that have failed or worked, what item to use in a spell or ritual, as well as the basics of magick and is a book, that shows you how you have grown magickally.

So, you could make a book of shadows, for lots of things in our family, even how good you have gotten at connecting with the father and luna,
and what, ritual worked for you, that allowed you to contact them, you could even draw occult stuff in a book of shadows, if you want to make it look nice, and its important in our family, that all members learn about the occult, to help their spirits grow.